How Women Show Interest in a Man

in real date.

We asked over 200 women: "How could a man you've never met know you are interested in him (you only see him around, but you've never talked)?" To sum up the responses...almost every answer involved her smiling at you and making eye contact. Below are all the responses:

Eye contact...definitely make sure you don't look away first. Somehow they finally get the clue and the connection will either be there or it won't

Smile at him

Smile at him and have him "accidentally" catch you checking him out.

I would flash him a smile everytime I see him. Maybe give him a wink.

I would make a lot of eye contact and find a way to have him hear me laugh. Then when I am somewhere he "happens" to be he will hear the laugh and want to know what all the fun is about.

By the way you look at him. How long you keep his gaze, and the expression on your face

Make small talk, make eye contact for a few seconds, then move away, then glance back :)

Lots of eye contact and warm smiles

With eye contact and smiles, of course!

I'm interested if I smile at him.

Body language, eye contact.

He wouldn't. I'm VERY shy about approaching men I'm attracted to.

Eye contact

Eye contact and a smile.

Always smiling at him or in his direction

If I smile at him whenever I see him. Or say "hi" whenever I see him. Or if he sees me staring and I quickly look away.

To most people this question would be easy to answer, to me...It's not a very easy one! I would have to say, I guess by the way I smile or I wink at them. For the last 2 years I have not had the experience of flirting or looking at another man because I am seriously involved and don't care too.

I smile at him and try to engage in conversation.

Look at him, use body language to tell him that you are interested in him.

Body language works wonders. Always try making eye contact with him whenever possible.

I'd look at him, and smile.

I will try to be near him, smile at him, be caught staring.

I look at him and make conversation with him.

If I smile at him or try to catch his eye.

Start talking to him.

I'll smile at him, and try and make eye contact.

I smile and make alot of eye contact.

That glance out of the corner of your eye and the little smirk/smile as you are leaving his presence.

If I'm often in the same place as he is, and look at him in a interesting way.

Smile at him.

If I go out of my way to make eye contact or am overly friendly. That's the most I do to put myself out there in his view.

Smiling at him....Eye contact....then start talking.

Eye contact very often, smile, etc.

I give him the deepest stares everytime I meet his eyes....and do that quite often.

Body language and eye contact

Constant eye contact

The way I look at him with my eyes, and the way I smile.

I look at him.

By the way I smile when he passes, as if we have talked already and made a date, kind of blushing at him.

If I look at him more than once when he walks by, or if I give him a half smile. Also, if I'm with friends, I will look at him, and say something to whomever I'm with.

By my actions towards him. If I'm friendly, if I flirt with him.

Eye contact, smile.

Giving him "THE LOOK".

Look at him and smile sweetly to him.

By the way I look at him.

The way you look at him and maybe tease him. Also the way you always pick on him and his pals.

Make eye contact, smile, etc

I wouldn't let him know. I would just be nice to him like everybody else and hope that he became interested in me.

I would look at him and smile once I've made eye contact.

Eye Contact!!...and a little smile, then look away.

Eye contact

When he starts to sense my stare and my presence nearly everywhere he goes.

I always start with direct eye contact. From there, I might try to ask him questions that would start a conversation that I think both of us would be interested in discussing.

By the way you look at him.

He can tell by the way we make eye contact.

If he vaguely knew who I was, I would probably just wave.

It's in the eyes, always in the eyes.

Make sure you are where he is. If he takes lunch at noon, at Joes Bar and Grill table # 4, you are at table # 5

I would look at him a lot--make eye contact. I would make an effort to stand closer to him.

The way you stare at him.

I keep looking at him, and try and walk by him.

I'd give him my phone number, and try to start a conversation.

The way that I look at him, smiles, and I'd probably look him up and down.

Eye contact, a smile or a hello...

Major eye contact, touching his arm, shoulder.

Know his whereabouts and find out about him.

The way you look at him. By smiling constantly in his direction.

Chemistry I would say!!

Make eye contact with him everytime you see him and smile alot at him...also go out of your way to say hello.

Eye contact, smiling then look away then back

Frequent glances his way and smiles when our eyes meet.

My eyes...in his direction almost every time he looks my way.

Smile at him and make occasion eye contact.

Making eye contact and smiling.

I'll be wherever he is (whenever I can) yet I am only within 'seeing distance'. Occasionally, there is brief eye contact... and when I have the guts..... a teeny weeny smile.

They way I look at him.

He'd catch frequent glances in his direction, and smiles.

Smile at him and look him in the eyes. Find something to say to get his attention if that's a problem.

SMILE AT HIM AND BE FRIENDLY TO HIM

Frequently catch his eye and smile really big, let him catch you watching him.

Eye contact or smile

By your eyes, and smiling.

By the way I act and smile and present myself.

I would make sure to be around whenever he is and make deep eye contact.

If you give him eye contact and smile.

Looking straight into his his eyes, smiling, gently brushing against him if I got the chance.

Constantly looking at him and smiling at him. If he's noticed me looking at him & we still haven't talked, I might wink at him.

I would pass him by a million times!

Smile, say "what's up", keep looking at him and make sure he knows that you are lookin'.

The way that I look at him.

I look over at him and when he looks I look away quickly. Then the more I see him the longer I'll look at him before I turn away until we actually make eye contact.

He'll know if he sees me looking at him constantly!

I follow him with my eyes.

By the way I look at him.

This is difficult. Sometimes I give clearer signals than other times.

Make eye contact.

He would be able to tell by the way I look and act when around him.

If I smile at him or continuously make eye contact.

Stare at him as if he is the only man around !!

By the way I flash a sexy smile directly into his eyes!

He'll catch my smile and feel the weight of my stare.

By making your meetings more often, bump in to him often. Then introduce your self.

Eye contact followed by a genuine smile.

I'll stare at him and try to catch his eye.

If I smile and look at him a lot. It's a sure sign.

Make eye contact as often as possible. Initiate conversations. Use touch appropriately.

The way I make eye contact and smile at him

Body language.

I make eye contact with him and eventually a smile.

I always give a genuine smile, and make sure I say "Hi" when I see them, but not always before he does.

If I was totally interested in a guy, but I have never talked to him, he could probably tell that I was interested if I smiled a lot in his presence.

I'd probably wink occasionally and give him smiles.

Eye contact...rumers "spread" by your friends. I might actually TALK to him.

I get caught staring at him, and suddenly look away when he sees me. I try to show up places I know he will be.

By the way I smile at him.

He probably wouldn't know. Sometimes I can get up the nerve to look at him for a prolonged amount of time and maybe smile...but if I'm really interested just looking at him gets me nervous so I don't look at him. I also don't look at men who don't interest me so it's hard to tell which you are...sorry guys. :)

I probably glance at him several times when I see him and the way I react when he is around may be a little different. I would smile at him if he saw me.

He would know by the way my eyes look when I look at him and the shy glances I give him. I might give him a wink to let him know I am interested.

He most probably would not know unless I start dropping hints.

Eye contact..about three times...holding the gaze a little longer on the third one.

I usually look him right in the eyes, and say hello and smile, or you look at him until he looks at you, and smile.

I make frequent eye contact with him, maybe talk to him a little bit more than usual.

IF I SMILE AT HIM AND MAKE EYE CONATACT.

My eyes, how much they seem to float in his direction. And a smile!!!

I'm always looking in his direction. When I like a man I will often just stare at him.

If he notices me showing up alot.

The way I look at him

Eye contact, my friend might tell him.

Through body language. By walking by him and looking into his eyes, almost to the point of staring. And a smile always helps

I would get really shy and have a difficult time talking to him.

The way I look at him. The body language I give him. The way I smile at him.

Eye contact.

Smile, eye contact.

Prolonged glances.

Sending him a little card to let him know he's on my every thought.

I try to make as much eye contact as possible.

Probably by showing some eye contact, body language - saying hi or smiling.

By my body language.

Make eye to eye contact.

I'll watch him, meet his eyes when he looks my way. Smile alot.

He can tell by how we look at them when we see them, and also by our body language.. how it changes all of a sudden when they walk into the room. Or you tell someone about how you feel and they tell him.

The way I look at him (i.e. blatantly staring).

Smile at him as much as possible

I usually try to get eye contact first. If I'm looking at him more than just a quick glance then I'm probably interested in him.

The way I look at him .

He'll see me staring/pointing, or talking about him.

If I stared for more than 5 sec. without blinking.

He would see me glancing in his direction.

If I smiled at him and looked into his eyes.

I will glance at him a lot and smile.

I'm sure he would notice right away.

I would do something to let him know. I'd send him stuff, smile etc.

It's all in the eyes.

I look at him, blush and look away.

Major smiling and eye contact from me.

I would make a lot of eye contact and smile.

I make eye contact and smile flirtatiously.

I will always steal glances at him or smile at him.

Make eye contact and smile. Look, look away, look again, look away.

Smiles, eye contact...etc

By the way you look at them.

The way I look at him, or talk to him.

I would smile at him and maybe ask him a questions.

Smile at him, gaze at him longer than normal.

By the way you watch him. Smile at him. Say hello maybe

I flirt with my eyes.. & make alot of eye contact

Just talk to him and use your eyes to convey your interest. Eyes can't hide feelings.

I would look at him until he noticed me then I would look away. I would do that several times and then I would smile at him.

He probably wouldn't...I'm watching him but not so that he would notice.

By the way I stare in his direction and smile.

I will keep looking and smiling at him.

It shows in my eyes.

I get kind of nervous and drop things. I say stupid things and pretend I'm don't care or that I'm not interested. Sometimes I totally ignore him!

The eye contact & smile I give.

He will see me walk by a lot, catch me staring at him.

He could see me stealing glances in his direction.

A lot of eye contact.

By seeing me look at him and smile!

I'll keep on looking at him and giving him smiles.

I will try to appear within his sight, but do not show any interest at all. This may in turn stir his curiousity and he will hopefully develop an interest in me.

EYE CONTACT

By looking into his eyes and then smiling

If you look at him certain ways.

Through eye-contact

My stare

Eye contact

Look at the message the eyes are sending.

If I talk to him a lot. I am never serious with a guy I am interested in!

I would talk to him and let him get to know me.

The way I look at him.

By me looking at him alot and smiling.

I would find a reason to talk to him

Eye contact

I make a lot of eye contact and smile.

Body language